The Widow Lady

Free Sci-fi anyone? Awesome, brilliant, well written, fun, and need I say more?









nope im not a fully grown adult sir, no sir




‘omg I love you you are so kind and aaaaah how old are you’

‘16 how old are you?’


I think this when I’m chatting with people on here and then look at their blog description and its like ‘16/17’ and I’m like holy shit you are the same age as my baby sister what the hellllll

Yeah but for those of us who have older tumblr friends, thank.

speaking as a 17 year old, trust me when i say it means a lot when 20-somethings on tumblr treat us with respect and take us seriously because god knows no one else older than us does

Yes I second this

How about someone who is 40 and adores your blogs?

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Mila Kunis Against Men Saying “We Are Pregnant” - Video

What the fuck is this bullshit and why was it recommended for me?

It’s not like men are involved in the creation of the baby or anything.

I mean shit, I understand that pregnancy is an extremely strenuous thing on the woman, but that doesn’t mean that a dude can’t be proud of the fact that he’s going to be a father.

Hmm. Weird how someone would want to be considered a part of the pregnancy…
There goes all of my respect for Mila Kunis.

My goodness, women like this have some fucking nerve. Good luck Ashton.

Please stop.

Pregnancy is a very dangerous time for cis-women. Until cis-men are capable of nine months of pain without the ability to take painkillers, followed by hours of one of the most painful experiences a human can undergo, I agree with Mila Kunis. It is your child. Not your pregnancy. You don’t get a fucking medal for sticking your dick inside someone and impregnating them, you get a child. So no, you don’t need a fucking spotlight highlighting your months of work and pain and the fact that you can potentially die trying to bring life into the world when you have not undergone any of the physical effort.

Things you can expect during pregnancy: Anemia, urinary tract infections, constipation, mental health conditions including intense depression, hyperemesis gravidarm (basically when persistent vomiting is more than just morning sickness and requires hospitalization). Not to mention there are dozens of infections that can cause serious problems. (x) (x)

Oh and the fact that 20% of pregnancies end in miscarriages which obviously requires hospitalization for the pregnant woman and causes a lot of emotional trauma.

Or that you can’t consume alcohol, most types of fish, you can’t expose yourself to hot water (or any heat, really), or get an x-ray. You cannot eat lunch meats, raw sprouts (radishes, alfalfa, etc.), soft cheeses, anything unpasteurized is out, as are foods with raw or undercooked eggs. And caffeine can lead to miscarriages, so say goodbye to coffee, teas, and chocolate. (x) (x) (x)

About 2 million pregnancy losses occur annually in the U.S.; 6 million babies are born. 25% of pregnancies are lost.

14.5% of pregnant women will experience at least one pregnancy complication.

11% of women are diagnosed with post partum depression.


800 women die because of pregnancy-related problems in the U.S. annually. (x)

Labor can last for 36 hours or more. You’re in a room full of strangers, who are all seeing your vagina, your blood, your shit, your piss, and your agony. It’s common for tearing to occur during the delivery (x) and after the baby is born you still have to deliver the placenta (essentially an organ).

Pregnancy is terrifying, dangerous, and uncomfortable. None of you have the right to shit on Mila Kunis for telling the truth: You do not deserve the spotlight of your wife’s pregnancy. So get over yourselves. Yes, the father CAN be proud, and he should be. But it’s not his pregnancy. He is not the one who will endure it.

It is not weird that someone would want to be involved in their wife’s pregnancy. It is weird that you have the fucking nerve to lose respect for someone reminding you that the father is not the pregnant one in the picture.

So please, stop.

Today in male entitlement: now women ”have some nerve” if they remind men that they are not, in fact, the pregnant ones. 

I love this post so so much

My husband hand cancer.  I used to say we were going to /our/ chemotherapy, and it was /our/ cancer.  I didn’t get chemo, but I did sit with him during the sometimes 12 hour sessions seeing to his every need.  I didn’t vomit, or get neutropenia, but I did clean the endless puke buckets and stay up sometimes all night with him caring for him in ways he could not longer do for himself.  And in the end, when he was dying…I couldn’t die for him any more than I could take the full brunt of the tumors living inside him.  I did, however, wash him, shave him, medicate him, dress him, undress him, and so on and so forth.  It was our life.  It was our cancer. We were equal partners in the disease. 

So, my point is, if you are having a baby with your other and you view your partners roll as less than important then you aren’t in a partnership.  Equal partners in life carry equal emotional burdens, chores, hopes, and fears.  My husband never corrected me when I said our cancer, because he knew that in every way my life changed as his did.  Just as when you bring a life into the world the your partner’s life changes are no less significant.  Taking away the right and privilege of a proper man to say “we are pregnant”  is marginalizing him, because men who say that are usually the partners up with their wives, holding the puke bucket, getting the craving foods in the middle of the night, and worrying how he’s going to help invest for your child’s college.  

It’s the men who say, “the bitch is pregnant and it’s not my problem”  who are the problem, who marginalize women, who need education that we are equals.  It is people in general who don’t invest wholly into their partners as equal regardless of sex that are the issues.

Stop minimizing start equalizing. 

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I don’t care who the fuck you are, or what you’re doing. You can take 3 seconds to reblog this.

I don’t care who the fuck you are, or what you’re doing. You can take 3 seconds to reblog this.

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